Thats right everyone, its February and that means its Black History Month. I do not think its coincidental that February also happens to be the shortest month of the year. Like, not a snowballs chance in hell they would make January, March or May Black History Month or anything. Ok, Im just trying to cause controversy. Anyway, back in December, one of the greatest actors ever, Morgan Freeman,
had this to say. Now, this really knocked me on my ass and Ive been meaning to raise the discussion for a while.
It always irritates me how race always has to be a major factor in everyday affairs for the purpose of advancing agendas. Maybe I am biased because of the perspective Morgan Freeman gave me when he played God in Liar Liar 3, also known as Bruce Almighty (I tend to think Mr Freeman was playing himself, he is that great of an actor to me- who else could tolerate sharing a set with a has-been like Jim Carrey and a never-was like Jennifer Aniston?). Anyway, Freeman says, the only way to get rid of racism is to "stop talking about it." I love it, I really do.
Now, I absolutely hate racism when it is intended to insult or offend, but I am a sucker for racial humor. I recognize that there are differences between all people, from mannerisms to culture, and those differences are funny, but really great, when you apply them to everyday life and how we relate to one another. Like, any time I go out and see white people dancing to gangstah rap music or something, my reaction is usually, "oh shit, white people are dancing, can we go somewhere else?" I'm sorry, but white boys should not dance and girls who weigh more than me shouldnt either (Im being generous here, I weigh 170 lbs) . Im kidding and just being a wiseass- My real point is that I just dont like how race always has to be such a sensitive subject- people should be proud of who they are but at the same time recognize that we are one nation with one history of numerous origins coming together.
When I was living in Boulder, three of my good friends were black, and whenever we went out, it was always hilarious to see some rich white boy from California kissing their ass because they were, well, black. My friends never got offended, they knew that people meant well, but they didnt feel that people had to be so outgoing and nice to them just because they were black. It must have been like some guilt complex or something, we never really quite got it- but boy did we make fun of it: our group of friends would hang out- a pretty diverse crew- and our black friends would try to order us around and command respect- "hey, we're in Boulder and I'm black, get me a beer white boy." It was funny- but seriously, all my friends wanted to do was to just hang out and be part of the crowd. Same with Morgan Freeman, he just wants to hang out and not have to be treated differently or looked at in a different light because of his skin color. Why dont we just judge people or treat them a certain way based on their eye or hair color?
Now, I understand that African-Americans in this country have had a lot to overcome the past few decades, definitely more than the average White person. They have overcome enormous obstacles and have achieved. We have witnessed some of the most brilliant leaders in this nation's history, from Dr. Martin Luther King to the Reverend Al Sharpton- who I think is a brilliant man with a great spirit. At the same time though, I agree with Morgan Freeman, his history does not need to be relegated to a month. His history is my history is your history is our history. What does that accomplish when we have to call a month "Black History Month?" Everyday and every month is Black History as far as I am concerned.
The liberation of African-Americans and the abolishment of slavery was the Civil War, not the month of February. The drive for equality, civil rights, suffrage, to be a part of everyday life like anyone else is our nation's history- not the month of February. Let us recognize and respect our cultural differences and be proud of who we are and where we came from. But let us all recognize that we are in this together and decisions do not always need to be made to appease a certain race or group of people and people shouldn't be treated differently- negatively or positively- based on their skin color.